Ten Steps to Wealth, Health and a Fabulous LIfe.
Your results are an expression of your values.
Maybe just reflecting your on your life’s results and writing them down was enough for you to understand how your life so far has been determined by your current values. I needed to pin those results down and really understand the concept of values, and hopefully what I did will help you.
Consider your results against this handy list of ‘values’. The list is not exhaustive, neither is it the ONLY list you can use, but it should form a good basis for your discovery:-
Freedom Happy Retirement Security Good Health Family, Parents, Relatives Friendships Meeting the ’Right Person’ Close Relationship with Children Spirtual Fulfilment Peace of Mind Wealth Living to an Old Age Being in Business for Yourself KNowing Important or Famous People Personal Possessions, Cars, Jewellry,Houses Contributions of Time, Money or Knowledge to Others Happiness Having no Problems to Deal With Free Time Fame Close Relationship with Spouse/Mate Power Adventure and Travel Sense of Accomplishment Respect from Others Being thought of as Good or Smart.
So….on the left hand side of your page you would have written your life’s results. On the right hand side of the page, adjacent to each result, now write the value that has driven them.
Remember there is no right, wrong good or bad….just results and values.
Did you like what you saw?
To be honest – there was one result/value that really gave me a reality check. ‘Personal Possessions’ was a value that was driving the results of achieving a beautiful house. (You can see it here at www.facebook.com/RenovationAtSlaters3 ). We have spent many hours, much money and much of our lives achieving this house. One could argue that being architects we were enculturated with that value in our training….but I know many architects who live in modest houses in modest suburbs.
And here’s the bottom line…..
If you want different results – you gotta change your values!
And in the next blog I’ll show you which values can incarcerate you!
PS If you think you might be interested in 12 months mentoring with Paul, then there is a free introductory night next week. Click HERE for the sales page with an accurate account of last year’s journey by one couple. Click HERE if you just want to book.
PSS I’ll be at the introductory night, and I’ll be joining the 12 month journey in June this year. I might see you there. It was that mindblowing I’m doing it again!
Edit: added the links on 13/03/13 – silly me!